Spy cameras to protect you from false rape & sex abuse accusations
Today, many women falsely accuse men of rape or sexual abuse. Whether you want to protect yourself from your girlfriend,...
Why men should get divorced in their 50ties
I have observed 50+ couples and I have found interesting stuff. In their 50ties, women still bash their husband. However, it wasn't the most common thing I have observed. I found that many 50+ female predators didn't support their husband in difficult times. Also, the female predators kept on pressuring their husband to earn more money. Female predators also kept pressuring men to do physical tasks (house, garden, business). This life is not sustainable for a man. Men should get divorced in their 50ies for several reasons: He still works...
Why should men aged 50+ divorce
I decided to write an article after observing couples aged 50+. I found that female predators kept on being harsh with their husband even if they had good living conditions. When you are 50+, you are likely to be richer than when you were 20+. 50+ couples likely own their house, get a stable source of revenue compared to couples aged 20+. However, this will never be enough for a female predator. Men have to understand that those women will never stop pressuring their men to earn more money and...
The problem with sharing your life with a solo mom
When a man decides to commit to a solo mom who has one or several children, the man faces several...
Those women who pretend to get seduced by men every day
Some women pretend that every time they go out some men try to seduce them. Unfortunately, women lie too. It...
How your gf lowers your ego talking about the sexual performance of her ex
This is what I called negative sexual manipulation. A woman will tell you that her past boyfriends had superhuman powers...
The marriage has no benefits to men in many cases
On the paper, marriage should be interesting since it provides tax allowances and would allow benefiting from the alleged revenue of the spouse in order to reach higher living standards. Also, in everyday's life, splitting expenses in two should benefit both spouses. However, this is not what I observed in many cases. Money I have observed many couples. Unfortunately, in many cases, female predators encourage their husband to live beyond their means. Let me explain. I know some men very well. I knew their personality before they got married. I...
Those women who crave for the heritage of their husband
We observed a situation lately where some wives desperately wish to get a piece of the heritage of their husband' parents. Story of a venal woman about heritage I remember this story where a father was about to die and a friend of this father met the son for the first time. The said friend was as old as the son. At this point, the wife of the son started to freak out because she thought the said friend could be something else than a friend of the father. She...
Men who give up their hobbies to pay the dreams of their wife/girlfriend
We found that many men gave up their hobbies to pay the bills of their wife or girlfriend. We know several men who used to have several hobbies before they got married. They gave up their hobbies when they started to share their life with a woman. I think about men who were musicians, men who like car tuning, men who liked spending money in some sports. Interestingly, I knew men with the same types of hobbies in the '90s when I was a teen. I vividly remember that those...
Hommage to Faith Goldy
While I have criticized Faith Goldy, I wanted to balance this last article.
They bet on men like in horse racing
We saw the rise of a new group of female predators who used men as money provider. For this to...
Opinion about the carousel concept – red pill –
The carousel is the idea that a woman may have lots of sexual encounters because of sexual freedom. This is just the sexual frustration of some men. You can't expect to live in a world where you are sexually free and wish that women don't have this sexual freedom. Male sexual freedom goes along with female sexual freedom. Women should have as much sex as men. More importantly, when men question the sexuality of women this means that those men are sensitive to everything women do. By doing so, they...
Those women who don’t accept being criticized
We saw that some women could decide to remove a man from their facebook list of friends or block a man after he said something to this woman. I investigated the matter and found that most of the time such an extreme behavior from the said female individual wasn't justified. For example, you may have said to a woman that she gained weight or you may have told her that she did something wrong. Most of the time, men are very nice to women. However, there is a new generation...
The Man shaming Gillette Ad
Here is the famous the famous Gilette advertisement which implies that there is such a thing as male toxicity. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koPmuEyP3a0 This man shaming commercial from Gillette is really impressive. Until now, ads were not politically involved. This ones Gillette made a stand in favor of the feminist ideas. Ok. If you disagree with Gillette I do advise you to switch to the Philips OneBlade shaver....
Sharing your life with a woman who does not earn enough money
When a wife or a girlfriend does not earn enough money I saw situations where women didn't earn enough money...
Please don’t share feminist propaganda
Some companies and associations distribute ads that are intended to make people react in a good way or bad way so that the advertising strategy actually works since people share this controversial ad. This is called controversial marketing. The best way to stop the propaganda of feminism would be to stop talking about it and stopping sharing it. To me, there is no bad buzz in advertisement. Find below a type of videos that you should not share or discuss. This was an advertisement for a women shoes maker. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5xJI4zYR5o8...
Those women who get divorced on an impulse
We saw those last years, the rise of divorces that weren't motivated by a serious explanation. In the past, I...
How they see women in Stargate SG-1
There are numerous hidden messages in the TV and movie show plots. In this sequel from the stargate SG1 TV show, they portray female earth civilians as being heavy spenders who spend their time buying clothing and trying to look good. This is the type of TV show no child or teenager should watch as it gives a wrong image of women. A woman is not more a woman by buying clothes, jewelry, and make-up. Now, we are on defenseofmen.com. The character acknowledges that they look fantastic. This is how...
A nice woman isn’t automatically a respectful woman
Some women may sound nice. They may compliment you. They may have a sweet sharp voice and a classy attitude. However, this does not mean that this woman is respectful to you. A woman may smile to you. She can tell you sweet words. She can compliment you but meanwhile, she may not be respectful with you. For instance, this "nice" smiley women can also be late to a date when you ask her to come. You may wait for her for hours in your car while she is shopping...
Avoid a girlfriend who wants to be a youtuber
Videos on youtube page pretend that any women can live on making youtube videos like ASMR videos, twerking, sharing pics...
Child education problem when living with a single mom
In the various situations that I have observed, the single mother did not want her new male companion to be involved in the education of her child(ren). Living under the same roof of this child gets complicated when the child causes trouble in the accommodation. If there is an argument between the stepfather and the stepson or stepdaughter, he/she can reply: "you can't tell me anything, you are not my father". Then, the stepfather may talk to his girlfriend / new wife and tell her about the problem with her...
How women become hypergamous
Mothers and fathers use to spoil daughters as compared to sons. When daughters become teenagers they replace the parents by their boyfriend. When female teenagers become adults, they replace their boyfriend by their husband. Those women are always looking for men who can bring them as much satisfaction as their parents did when they were children. Consequently, hypergamous women are created by parents who spoil their daughters. Those parents offer too many gifts to their daughters (e.g.: sweet sixteen). The parents don't teach the value of money to their daughterThe...
Jennifer Lawrence discovers she isn’t the centre of universe. Tough!
During a Jimmy Kimmel show, the actress Jennifer Lawrence asked Hollywood boulevard bystanders to name 5 movies in which she's been. The video editor placed the fans at the beginning of the sequence and then it turns to be a disaster as interviewees had no idea who Jennifer Lawrence was. They had to call the Jimmy Kimmel sidekick "Guillermo" to answer this question and show that at least one man could name 5 movies in wich Jenniger Lawrence played a character. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CeKMHBOU6Jk This is how an entitled woman discovers that...
Femspreading is women’ incivility
There are situations in public transport where pair of seats are facing each other with a limited space between the two. A woman or several women may cross their legs after sitting so that they take the space and prevent people to access the front seat. You can see below a picture of femspreading that someone took in the tramway of Montpellier in France in March 2019. femspreading in Montpellier's tramway (France) In the USA, a woman refused to remove her purse from the seat on a train. However, she...
Men become money providers of women
Back in February 2018, I wrote an article about the Russian gold digger ideology. Then, in 2018, I saw that women in the Western world also took advantage of this ideology. For example, the female youtuber Georgia Free legitimated hypergamy as being a natural behavior of women to raise their offspring. This implied that men's role on earth is to provide money to women. In the nineties, I vividly remember that women in the USA and Europe wanted to be financially independent. Now, it is like some women understood that...
How female predators get their boyfriend’s money
The goal of this article is to highlight the strategies that can be used to take advantage of a man's money in a context where there is no marriage. The strategy of the female predacious girlfriend is to pull out as much wealth as she can from the male without him noticing it. It makes sense in the actual world. There are fewer marriages than before. When a predator is not married she has to get the money of her boyfriend in a different manner than in a court battle....
Your gf/wife wants to go on holidays to expensive destinations
I have observed inflation of expectations towards men in relationships since 2000-2003. Vacation is one feature of this inflation. Before 2000, the women I knew appreciated to go on vacation to relatively close vacation destinations. Today, those women would prefer to take a flight or ask their husband to drive to a remote destination. Some of you may say that the flight tickets prices tremendously dropped. However, in my region, the closest airport is located 125 km (77 miles) away. This implies that one has to drive to the airport,...
A female manipulator says she’ll not be a financial burden
Here is a new type of female manipulators I have observed. I have said in the past, that unemployed housewives were a financial burden for the husband. I have couple examples where couples ended up their life in misery because they could only rely on one retirement pension. When a woman didn't work for 30 years, the issue is quite obvious. Now, fewer men are ready to marry an unemployed woman because the financial risk is too high for the man. It would be really bad if this man would...
The Wikipedia’s definition of Hypergamy is wrong
Hypergamy is the situation when a woman decides to get committed to a man who earns more money than her. Lots of pseudo-scientific statements have been added to the Wikipedia page for Hypergamy. There is no sociological or ethnological studies stating that women always chose richer men to raise their offspring in a safe environment. I don't want to promote those fallacious ideas because this legitimates and reinforces the idea that WE, men should dedicate our life to women. This implies that we should compete against each other to reach...
Stop being friend with toxic women
I am now 40 years old as I write this posts. As I look back, I think about all the time when I witnessed that men were too kind and sociable with some women who weren't nice. In situations where the men weren't tied to the women for any reasons, those men were overly nice. For example, I think about the situation where a man still kept on listening to a woman who continuously bashed or mistreated him. Whoever his age, rank, social status, this man decided to have a...
My mother became a gold digger
My mother is now in her sixties and I saw the increase of hypergamy and gold digging since the late nineties. People got it wrong when they think that only young women are looking for money. Cupid women can be 20 years old or 80 years old. Cupidity is ageless. In the nineties when I was a teen, my mother had no interested in luxury cars, jewels, and exotic vacation destinations. Now, in her sixties, she systematically comments luxury cars like Mercedes, BMW or Porsche. The curves of the Porsche...
The story about this camgirl who insulted men online.
We found a video from a camgirl named Nina on the camgirl site Streamate. We were surprised to hear that she called a user "piece of sh*t". Most of the camgirls websites forbid chat hosts to insult people online. While she insulted men, we didn't read in the chat area of the screen any messages saying that the said camgirl was a whore or a slut like it was said. Anyways, those words are words. As we write this article, Nina the camgirl who insulted men is still a camgirl....
Review of the red pill interviews from Alexander Grace (Youtube)
Alexander Grace has created a channel where he interviewed women about red pill subjects. Here is my opinion about it. I think that interviewing women about how they perceive men is a waste of time for several reasons. Some interviewed women lie about what they really think or how they act. They may give Alexander Grace a pre-made opinion that is commonly accepted by the society. They also may be in denial. For example, a woman may say that she is not interested in rich men but systematically dates men...
Is hypergamy legitimate?
First assumption: Some people (men and women) say that hypergamy is legitimate because women try to find a safe environment to raise their offspring. I will demonstrate here that it is not true. However, when we look at the expenses of hypergamic women, we discover they want luxurious products and services that aren't necessary for raising the children. For example, a swimming pool does not contribute to providing a safe environment for children. Also, many women among those hypergamic women want a luxurious SUV. However, we don't need to have...
Hitting the wall, what does it mean?
This is when a woman, usually in her 30ties abruptly gets way less beautiful than before. In the course of 2 years, her face and body dramatically change and she does not look as good as before....
Never trust woman’s Words, only trust her actions
I think that most of time, men underestimate women who act in their favor. Men value women who give them compliments but they don't give enough importance to women who do something for men. A compliment is free. A compliment costs nothing. It does not require energy or time for it. On the other hand, when a woman helps you doing your job, when a woman lend moneyto you, when a woman finds you an accommodation she really spent time, money, energy for you. This is a real fact in your favor....
Women vs female chimps asking for male protection
Numerous times in my life, I have heard women who expected their husband or boyfriend to defend their family. Those women wanted the man to be the soldier of the family. He had to protect the children and his woman. I have observed mammals and I found there aren't any species with such a behavior. In the animal reign, female mammals are the first to protect their offspring. Males can help from time to time depending on the species but there is no situation where the male defends everyone. Usually,...
Don’t kill a man for a woman
A boyfriend / husband may kill another man because of a woman in several circumstances: This man had sex with his wife or girlfriendHe is jealous of this manThe wife or girlfriend said something that implied that this man should be killed and the husband/boyfriend decides to kill the said man. When it happens it means that the male killer considers the wife to be the most important thing in his life. This means that the killer forgets the importance of his family, friends, job and freedom. He is ready...
Validating a woman on a social media isn’t an issue
I know that many MGTOW are upset to see that so many women get compliments on social medias even if they don't deserve those compliments. However, I would like to say that it is not an issue. The virtual world vs the real world Courting a woman in the real world today is an issue. It implies that you have to book time. You must spend money to date this particular woman over several days or a week. It is going to be stressful because she may play and tell...
Those women who encourage their husband to get indebted.
We met some women who encouraged their men to spend money. When media talk about household debt, they make believe that the couple is a unique entity. However, we know that in some cases, this debt is the result of women financial choices. A woman can be heavy spender but we observed that it is not the most common situation. Some women encourage their men to live beyond their means. In 2002, David power research found that women made the accommodation-buying decision in 80% of cases. The accommodation is the...
She didn’t come to a date – what to think
In my life, I have set up a date to a handful of women and didn't come to my date. I have noticed that all those women had the same profile. They were pretty. I must mention that also pretty women came to other of my dates. I think that some women think that they have time on their hand. They are going to stay beautiful and play this game of seduction all their life. However, we very much know that at 35 years old, the game is over because...