Hypergamy is not about the children
However, when we look at the expenses of hypergamic women, we discover they want luxurious products and services that aren’t necessary for raising the children.
For example, a swimming pool does not contribute to providing a safe environment for children. Also, many women among those hypergamic women want a luxurious SUV. However, we don’t need to have a luxury SUV like a BMW, an Audi, a Range Rover to bring the children to School. You don’t need to buy a castle for the children.
The children are an excuse for some female manipulators to obtain luxury products and services that aren’t necessary and they want a man to pay for it.
Second assumption: This was like that since the beginning of the
It is easy to make such an assumption when we look at history from our perspective. However, there were other society organizations by the past. A long time ago, a woman didn’t have any choice when choosing a partner. She didn’t have Tinder, Facebook, Instagram, and the internet. She had no validation from anyone. She lived in a tribe of 10 to 30 people and she had perhaps 4 or 5 options. People had the same background in this tribe. People had way fewer assets than now. In some societies, there were arranged marriages for centuries, where the bride and the young man had nothing to say. For sure, hypergamy is related to the increasing household wealth in the world. It is a sociological behavior that is possible only because there never been as much wealth as now on earth. People have more assets than their predecessors.