MGTOW advice to men

My mother became a gold digger

My mother is now in her sixties and I saw the increase of hypergamy and gold digging since the late nineties. People got it wrong when they think that only young women are looking for money. Cupid women can be 20 years old or 80 years old. Cupidity is ageless.

In the nineties when I was a teen, my mother had no interested in luxury cars, jewels, and exotic vacation destinations. Now, in her sixties, she systematically comments luxury cars like Mercedes, BMW or Porsche. The curves of the Porsche cars haven’t changed since a while but my mother suddenly got interested in it. She also likes the range rover evoque. In the late nineties, I vividly remember that I have never heard my mother talking about luxurious cars. The Range Rover Evoque (picture below) is on her list.

She also started to talk about vacations to remote destinations. Before she was happy about the nearby countries that we could reach by car. Now, she wants to fly to remote destinations which imply expenses related to the flight tickets.

In the nineties, my mother didn’t wear any jewelry except her wedding ring. Now, she asked my father to buy a ring made of diamond and gold which cost 2500 euros ($2800, £2200). On top of that, she wishes to get a jacuzzi even if there is obviously no space in the garden. I surprisingly one day discovered that my mother asked my father to buy expensive Italian designer furniture.

These increase in expenses came along with hypergamy. I saw the growing interest of my mother for rich men. However, when I was a teen, in the nineties I vividly remember that my mother never mentioned any rich men. However, since she worked in a restaurant she used to see rich men. One of our family friends was a successful business owner and he became a millionaire thanks to a patent, however, she never talked about him in the nineties. Today, she always talk about the richest men of her entourage and the successful business men lifestyle that she ignored back in the nineties.

My mother is now cupid. She pressures my father to earn more money. It is pretty logical seeing her new behaviour.

Now I’d like to tell you how this change of behavior affected me (her son) too. Now, everytime I talk about my earnings my mother mentions that she would like to benefit from my earnings. Among other things, She would like to get expensive gifts from me. 

Now lady’s and gentlemen, I’d like to tell you what she told me. She wants me to give her money when she will be retired. In other words, she wants a pension from me.

In my country (France) there is a law mentioning that when parents are in needs children should help them. Fortunately for me, my parents have a retirement plan, investments, and even assets. I think about the situation where the mother in a family would have been a heavy spender throughout her life forcing her son to help her financially when she would retire. In my country, parents can sue children to get a pension. I am lucky not to be in this situation.

In order to protect my money, I don’t mention all my sources of income to my mother.


The conclusion for MGTOW men is the following: Your mother is a woman like any other women. The women of your family have nothing different than other women. You also should observe your close female relatives to see whether you see evidence of gold digging, hypergamy, male bashing, monkey branching…

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