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Stop being friend with toxic women

Stop being friend with toxic women

I am now 40 years old as I write this posts. As I look back, I think about all the time when I witnessed that men were too kind and sociable with some women who weren’t nice. In situations where the men weren’t tied to the women for any reasons, those men were overly nice. For example, I think about the situation where a man still kept on listening to a woman who continuously bashed or... »

My mother became a gold digger

My mother became a gold digger

My mother is now in her sixties and I saw how she became a hypergamous gold digger since the late nineties. People got it wrong when they think that only young women are looking for money. Cupid women can be 20 years old or 80 years old. Cupidity is ageless. In the nineties when I was a teen, my mother had no interest in luxury cars, jewels, and exotic vacation destinations. Now, in her sixties, s... »

The story of this camgirl who insulted men online.

The story of this camgirl who insulted men online.

We found a video from a camgirl named Nina on the camgirl site Streamate. We were surprised to hear that she called a user “piece of sh*t”. Most of the camgirls websites forbid chat hosts to insult people online. While she insulted men, we didn’t read in the chat area of the screen any messages saying that the said camgirl was a whore or a slut like it was said. Anyways, those wo... »

Review of the red pill interviews from Alexander Grace (Youtube)

Review of the red pill interviews from Alexander Grace (Youtube)

Alexander Grace has created a channel where he interviewed women about red pill subjects. Here is my opinion about it. I think that interviewing women about how they perceive men is a waste of time for several reasons. Some interviewed women lie about what they really think or how they act. They may give Alexander Grace a pre-made opinion that is commonly accepted by society. They also may be in d... »

Hypergamy is all about greed

Hypergamy is all about greed

First assumption: Some people say that hypergamy is legitimate because women try to find a safe environment to raise their offspring. I will demonstrate here that it is not true.  When we look at the expenses of hypergamous women, we discover they want luxurious products and services that aren’t necessary for raising children.  For example, a swimming pool, a luxurious SUV, a big h... »

Hitting the wall, what does it mean?

Hitting the wall, what does it mean?

This is the time of the life when a woman, usually in her 30ties abruptly gets way less physically attractive than before. In the course of 2 years, her face and body dramatically change, and she does not look as beautiful as before. The bad skin complexion, a less attractive shape of the face, the black circles under the eyes, the wrinkles appear at the same time. »

Never trust woman’s Words, only trust her actions

Never trust woman’s Words, only trust her actions

I think that most of time, men underestimate women who act in their favor. Men value women who give them compliments but they don’t give enough importance to women who do something for men.  A compliment is free. A compliment costs nothing. It does not require energy or time for it. On the other hand, when a woman helps you doing your job, when a woman lend moneyto you, when a woman fin... »

Women vs female chimps asking for male protection

Women vs female chimps asking for male protection

Numerous times in my life, I have heard women who expected their husband or boyfriend to defend their family. Those women wanted the man to be the soldier of the family. He had to protect the children and his woman.  I have observed mammals and I found there aren’t any species with such a behavior. In the animal reign, female mammals are the first to protect their offspring. Males can help f... »

Don’t kill a man for a woman

Don’t kill a man for a woman

A boyfriend / husband may kill another man because of a woman in several circumstances: This man had sex with his wife or girlfriend He is jealous of this man The wife or girlfriend said something that implied that this man should be killed and the husband/boyfriend decides to kill the said man.  When it happens it means that the male killer considers the wife to be the most important thing in his... »

Validating a woman on a social media isn’t an issue

Validating a woman on a social media isn’t an issue

I know that many MGTOW are upset to see that so many women get compliments on social medias even if they don’t deserve those compliments. However, I would like to say that it is not an issue.  The virtual world vs the real world Courting a woman in the real world today is an issue. It implies that you have to book time. You must spend money to date this particular woman over several days or ... »

Those women who encourage their man to get into debt

Those women who encourage their man to get into debt

We met some women who encouraged their men to spend money beyond their means. When media talk about household debt, they make believe that the couple is a unique entity. However, we know that in some cases, this debt is the result of women financial choices. Some women encourage their man to spend his money. In 2002, a David power research found that women made the accommodation-buying decision in... »

She didn’t come to a date – what to think

She didn’t come to a date – what to think

In my life, I have set up a date to a handful of women and didn’t come to my date. I have noticed that all those women had the same profile. They were pretty. I must mention that also pretty women came to other of my dates.  I think that some women think that they have time on their hand. They are going to stay beautiful and play this game of seduction all their life. However, we very much k... »

Problem with adopting the child of a single mother

Problem with adopting the child of a single mother

A man who decides to date a single mother will also spend time with her child. This is going to be a problem at some point because he is not the father of the child. I have noticed that some women wanted the man to help the mother to pay for the expenses related to the child or the children. Those mothers also wanted the father to literally be the new father. The man is used as a facilitator, a mo... »

Men who want to limit women freedom aren’t mgtow

Men who want to limit women freedom aren’t mgtow

I have read numerous time on facebook, comments of men who regret that women weren’t housewives. Some men would like to withdraw women voting rights from women.  Women voting’s rights If some men go their own way, this is not because women don’t vote well. Since there are many more male politicians than women. That’s men who voted all the feminist laws. You can blame women ... »

What men should know before getting married in the US

What men should know before getting married in the US

Women initiate 70% of all divorces (reference) Currently, the divorce rate per 1000 married women is 16.9. The divorce rate per 1000 married women is nearly double that of 1960 (reference Wilkinson – Finkbeiner family lawyer) Almost 50 percent of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce or separation. Researchers estimate that 41 percent of all first marriages end in divorce 60... »

The myth of the bad boy’s attraction

The myth of the bad boy’s attraction

The bad boy definition In the first place, the definition of bad boys is provided by female manipulations. Consequently, it is a bad start. That’s those women who decide to call a man a bad boy but are those men really bad boys?  Those female manipulators can make up a story about a man. They can tell that a man is a bad boy even if he has not done anything wrong.  For example, whe... »

How to detect that a man is a purple pill

How to detect that a man is a purple pill

Sometimes ago, I was on discord and I discussed the prostitution phenomenon in Ukraine on a MGTOW discord room with a so-called MGTOW member. During the conversation, he started to say that Ukrainian women were victims of the harsh situation in Ukraine. According to him, since they were desperate they worked as prostitutes.  This is a purple pill behavior to me when one thinks that women are ... »

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The sugar daddy/baby relationship is a scam targeting men

The sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship is a scam. When a man engages in a sugar daddy/baby relationship, there isn’t a written agreement between the woman and the man about what she has to give in return for the amount of money he gives to the sugar baby. Conversely, when a man exchanges money against sex after meeting an escort, the agreement is simple.  I think that many men are scam... »

Should a man react to shaming from a women?

Should a man react to shaming from a women?

They are many situations where men are shamed by women. This starts at high school and men accept it. You are told that you are not handsome. You are told that you are too selfish. You are told that you don’t do the right thing. A first reaction would be to react to shaming. I think it is useless because by doing so we don’t get anything useful from reacting to shaming. First of all, I... »

Those Youtube attention seekers

Those Youtube attention seekers

I lived at some point in Cisjordania, east of Israel. When I was there, there were no female activists fighting shariah or radical Islam. In fact, I have never met a representative of the non-profit organization when I was in Cisjordania. In the middle east, there aren’t any women who contradict the system. Men were in charge of problems. In the middle east, men have even more responsibiliti... »

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