We saw that some women could decide to remove a man from their facebook list of friends or block a man after he said something to this woman. I investigated the matter and found that most of the time such an extreme behavior from the said female individual wasn’t justified.
For example, you may have said to a woman that she gained weight or you may have told her that she did something wrong. Most of the time, men are very nice to women. However, there is a new generation of women who don’t accept being criticized or being challenged. They don’t accept even the smallest critic. The situation is so dire so that men have to prepare the woman when they have something negative to say.
For example, “I don’t want to judge you, you look good but your teeth are yellow. That’s what a man said to a female youtuber.” this man thought that this would help her. The said female youtuber replied something like “how dare you talking to me like that, you don’t respect my health condition”.
Here there is a double standard. Many women don’t accept critics but they can be really tough with men. Men are called jerks, ugly, stupid by women and this behavior is normal to many people.
Coming back to women. Those women are really sensitive to any critics. No men should feel guilty while after a discussion, a woman gets upset about his behavior. If she overreacts, that’s her problem.
Funny enough, the female magazines advocate “communication” as being the main way to solve social problems. It is said that women are better at communicating than men. Men are said to be violent and bad at compromising.
When I was younger, I made the mistake to ask female relatives about the best way to tackle an issue with a woman I knew. The response remained invariably the same: “did you talk to her? go talk to her.” However, many women ignored me and refused to talk to me after I sent a text message, an email, a facebook message…
My message to men would be: Step back and don’t get involved. Don’t feel bad if a woman rejected you. Don’t value women. Don’t try to change them. You can’t change them. Don’t feel guilty about what you did in the past. You likely did everything in your power to communicate during dating or during a conversation. Focus on the future. Focus on your life.
None of my male friends ever called a girlfriend or a female friend a slut or a bitch. None of them ever called a woman “names” in a conversation. Today, women are treated like princesses and men are treated like slaves.
Today the system want a man to feel guilty of all his behaviors.
First example:
A man talked to a woman, she slapped him in the face. They want you to feel guilty about what you said. However, you are the victim because a woman slapped you in the face.
Second example.
A man said to a woman that she wasn’t nice and the woman kicked him out from his facebook friend list. People want the man to feel guilty about what he said to the woman but he is the victim since he has been kicked out from the friends list.