A woman may tell you that her past boyfriends had superhuman powers in bed to lower your self esteem and better manipulate you. This is what I call negative sexual manipulation.
Let’s take some examples:
- She tells you that a past boyfriend could have sex 5 times in a row
- She tells you that a past boyfriend ejaculated a huge amount of semen
- She tells you that a past boyfriend could last 3 hours before ejaculating.
- She tells you that a past boyfriend could have sex 10 minutes after ejaculating.
A guy hearing those claims might buy into them, especially with the abundance of porn featuring men who seem sexually powerful. But the truth is, that’s far from reality.
I believe some women share such stories to deflate your ego. This tactic has several implications. They aim to make you feel fortunate to have them, leading you to be more submissive and agree to their demands in the relationship. You’re more inclined to accept a relationship where they benefit from your resources or job. For instance, picture dating an exceptionally attractive woman who claims to have had “superhero” ex-boyfriends. By manipulating you, she anticipates being treated like royalty. This could mean she doesn’t need to work, and you foot the bill for everything she desires.
She wants to make you believe that you have to work hard to deserve her.