Is chatting with cam girls the best for a MGTOW?

In the MGTOW community, some men perceive camgirl chat users as submissive men who worship women. Some MGTOW call those men “cucks”. While an online relationship with a cam girl is a paid relationship, webcam chats with camgirls include lots of advantages to men.

Here are the advantages of an online relationship vs a real-world relationship for a MGTOW.

  • The day after a private chat session with a camgirl, a man can’t get falsely accused of sexual abuse or rape . Since they aren’t any physical contact, a woman can’t accuse a camgirl site user of raping her.
  • Men don’t have to fear STD’s with a camgirl since there is no physical contact in this online relationship.
  • They also don’t fear to get tricked. There will be nothing like forced fatherhood with a camgirl. There is no risk of impregnating a woman.
  • A camgirl site user does not need to be concerned about alimony and child support. The fact that he does not physically meet the woman in person protects him from impregnating the woman.
  • Since men pay, women have to deliver. Since the man pays, he can impose his desire to the camgirl. For example, he can ask her to get naked or a roleplay whenever HE wants.
  • If a man is not happy about a cam girl he can stop the conversation without saying goodbye. Then, he can choose somebody else among the camgirls. He is not forced to listen to the woman’s problems as in real life. He does not need to answer calls or bring her belongings back to her. She will not be able to retaliate.
  • The man decides when the relationship starts and ends.
  • The man chooses the woman he wants to see. A regular customer can easily replace a cam girl with a nicer, more beautiful and younger woman.
  • The man does not suffer from any downsides of a relationship. He will not suffer from male bashing, critics, humiliation, on-going solicitation. If it is the case, he can stop the conversation in a blink of an eye by pressing a button.
  • The man is not pressured to go into debts. In the real world today, some women order their man to buy expensive products like a house, a car, a swimming pool, expensive trips. Cam girls are cheaper than a significant number of gold diggers.
  • You may spend a lot of money on cam girls but you will likely not end up in debt. Let’s differentiate between being ruined or being in debt. When you are ruined because of a woman, your account balance is equal to zero. When you are in debt because of a woman, your balance is equal to minus something. We live in a world where we are tricked into believing that being in debt is normal while in fact it is worse than being ruined. If a gold digger made you take out loans, it will have long-lasting financial consequences in your life after splitting up with her. You must pay off the loans triggered by your ex for many years after breaking up. On the other hand, if you spend a lot of money on camgirls, after you stop, it is not going to cause long-lasting financial consequences.


The internet act as a layer of protection between men and women to prevent men to find themselves in trouble because of female predators.

Some men consider that camgirls are bad. This should be put in context.

Some people may tell you that webcam girls cost a lot of money. However, if you compare the cost of dating and the cost of cam girl websites, you’ll see that dating is less efficient than webcam model websites. For example, you can decide to use a cam model service whenever you want. On the other hand, your date may take up your time and ask you to be available when she wants you to be available.

Then, when you go out from your home to date a woman, you spend money without being aware of it (restaurant, car, bar, venues, clothes and many other small expenses). However, it does not mean that you are going to be successful with this woman.

Case 2: A man gets engaged to a gold digger.

Compare the cam girl chat expenses with the expenses related to a spendthrift woman: clothes, jewelry, holidays, car loans, mortgage loan, custom kitchen, swimming pool, fancy furniture, second home, divorce, child support, alimony, vacation, restaurant, leisure activities…

A cam girl can be way cheaper than a toxic girlfriend or a wife. For example, I know a committed man who was forced to buy a house near the sea because his girlfriend wanted it. Houses near the sea are more expensive than anywhere else. So, he bought a house that was 40% more expensive than a regular house in a nice suburb. This man didn’t want to buy a house in the first place. In order words, the relationship with a girlfriend cost him $350,000. No cam girl will ever cost you as much the amount of a mortgage loan. Some people will answer that the mortgage loan is not a loss. He has to give up a part of his salary for the next 25 years. He gave up his hobbies and vacation trips to remote destinations. Also, freedom is priceless.