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Your wife/gf told you her past boyfriend had a large penis

There are instances where a woman might tell you that her ex-boyfriend had a larger penis than you. I have a few thoughts on this matter. Firstly, this could be a manipulation tactic, which I discuss in my e-book “How Toxic Women Manipulate Men.”

Since there is no real-world size reference, it’s easy for a woman to manipulate you by saying that her ex-boyfriend had a big penis. When a woman tells you this, her ex-boyfriend or husband isn’t present to prove it, and she may take advantage of the fact that you can’t verify the size of her ex-partner’s penis. This could be a manipulation tactic to lower your self-esteem and control you better. Men with low self-esteem are easier to control than confident men, and some women are skilled at lying to manipulate their current partners.

You’ll never know if she’s lying or not. If you try to find out whether her statement is true, you’ll only feel worse because you’ll never get a definitive answer. Instead, it’s better to focus on your own goals and pleasure rather than trying to find out if her ex-partner had a larger penis.

After observing several women, I noticed that many of them claimed that their ex-partners had large penises. However, it’s unlikely that all men have larger penises. I call this manipulation tactic “the ghost man,” and you can find it in my e-book “How Toxic Women Manipulate Men.”