Men who give up their hobbies to pay the dreams of their wife/girlfriend
We found that many men gave up their hobbies to pay the bills of their wife or girlfriend.
We know several men who used to have several hobbies before they got married. They gave up their hobbies when they started to share their life with a woman. I think about men who were musicians, men who like car tuning, men who liked spending money in some sports.
Interestingly, I knew men with the same types of hobbies in the ’90s when I was a teen. I vividly remember that those men used to spend a lot of money on their hobbies in the ’90s. They could spend money on synthesizers, guitars, cars, computers… In the ’90s, computers used to be really expensive compared to today.
I am sure it is always the case but a new phenomenon appeared around 2008.
Financial expectations towards men
Today, female predators order their husband to spend money on other expenses like travels, custom kitchen, furniture, hot tubs, gardens, nice cars, big houses, cottages. I found that many men are forced to give up their hobby to be able to buy the products and services ordered by their wife or girlfriend.
No hobby allowed
On top of that, those female predators don’t allow their husband or boyfriend to have a personal hobby. For example, I remember a woman who didn’t want her boyfriend to play hockey with her friend because she felt excluded. We all heard women saying that the “household budget” was lost in expenses of the boyfriend hobby. Strangely, no one, I say no one challenge the high expenses triggered by the woman in the couple. When people spend $20000 in a swimming pool or $4000 in a luxurious hot tub, it is ok.
There is a situation where the man works and lives for his wife rather than working and earning money for himself.
Children as an excuse
Some people may answer that there are additional expenses related to the arrival of children in the family. When I visit a family with children, I find that most of the big expenses are not mandatory for the comfort and education of the children. I think about the overpriced custom kitchen, expensive holidays, expensive SUVs, expensive swimming pools, custom kitchen, furniture…